The wedding discussions have begun! There is already so much running through my mind and we have barely started the planning process. I have to keep reminding myself that we have a whole year to figure it out and that staying relaxed is essential. Every girl is afraid she's going to end up being the bridezilla we see on the reality shows. It seems weddings bring out the best and worst in people. My favorite part of this first planning phase is all of the advice. The first thing you hear about when you tell people you're engaged is what they loved and hated about their own wedding (or if not married what they loved/hated about a wedding they went to). The stories all have the same general outcome- don't fret the small stuff and don't go overboard on the planning. Even if I had $50k to throw the wedding "of my dreams" I don't really see myself ever dropping that much money on a single event. Having been a part of so many weddings already there are so many things I just don't care about. Centerpieces, napkins, tulle... all things I don't really care about. I want our wedding to be fun and interesting. I want people talking about how much fun it was, not how much they think we spent or how they would have done it differently.
The good news is, we've decided on colors! Assuming everything works out I think we're going to be going with purple and green.
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